Archive for August, 2010
If you are hoping to learn how to pick up really hot girls there are a couple of things that you should keep in mind. Well, there are a lot of things to keep in mind and sometimes it may seem like a very complicated balancing act but when all of the pieces fall into place the act of flirting with a really beautiful woman can be more thrilling than any other past time known to man.
The thrill of the chase and the rapport that is built when you become really skilled at flirting and picking up women is second to none when it comes to having a good time. One thing to keep in mind though is that these women are still human beings. It can be tempting to forget this fact but try to remember that and treat each and every woman with the respect that you would want someone to give to your own sister, ok?
Looking at a beautiful woman that you are trying to get close to as a human being first can actually help you to overcome many of the obstacles that many guys run into when trying to pick up women. By remembering that every woman that you come in contact with has many of the same fears that are common to all of us but especially attractive women can help you tremendously if you think about it.
First, she doesn’t want to be treated like a piece of meat or a trophy that is to be won. Nobody wants to be used or viewed as simply a goal that is to be attained. As attractive as a woman might be she still has the same fears and doubts that most women have. She has days when she feels fat and ugly and stupid. She has times when she is just sick of dating loser guys who are only looking for one thing and she dreams of finding one good guy that she can really get close to.
The fact is that you can be that guy. You can be the guy that gives her renewed hope in mankind and make that connection with some really beautiful women if you understand these simple facts and use them to your advantage.
For instance, you approach a really beautiful woman that you have been trying to get up the guts to talk to all night long. She sees you coming and you get that feeling that you’re going to be shot down but you decide to go through with approaching her anyhow. You introduce yourself and instead of coming out with one of the same lines that she has probably heard from every other guy all night long you say something like, “I’m going to be leaving soon but before I go I just had to tell you that you have the most beautiful smile that I have ever seen. When you’re happy and having a good time your smile is just amazing. Your eyes sparkle and you just look so happy. It’s not phony or forced. I am talking about that genuine smile that you get on your face when nobody is looking that I think is just the cutest thing in the world.”
That is your opening line and where you take it from there is up to you. Most women will be blown away by this complement and you can almost guarantee at least a good 5 to 10 minute conversation if you play your cards right. Of course, be prepared to walk away if you don’t get a response from her and give her ten minutes or so to feel bad if she acts like a jerk to you.
While this is only one little tip it is a very effective way to break the ice and start a conversation with attractive women no matter what the social situation. For further tips and tricks on picking up women you can pick up our free book on flirting with women and creating attraction.
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So, you have gone out with her on a couple of dates and everything seems to be going just fine. And then, while you are talking to her, she refers to you as a FRIEND! Uh oh, now you are in the friend zone and you may not be able to get out of there! This happens to a lot of guys and they end up wondering what they did wrong, why women always seem to see them as just being friend material and nothing more.
Well, there IS a reason why women do this, and if you keep on getting put in the friend zone when you want something more, then you need to know what that reason is.
And I can tell you that the reason is she is NOT attracted to you.
Sure, she might enjoy being with you and she may even flirt with you from time to time, but if she is not attracted to you, then you ARE going to end up getting called a friend when all you want to be is her boyfriend.
Is there something that you can do to prevent this from happening?
Here are some dating tips for men on how to make sure she never thinks of you as being just a friend:
1. Make a move on HER.
I am going to start out with this, because this is usually the most common reason why a woman will go out on a date with you and still end up thinking of you as just a friend. You did not make a move on HER. Some guys are taught to be extra polite to a woman that they like and because of this, they think that if they make a move on her, they will be disrespecting her. Well, I have to tell you, if you do not make any kind of move on a woman, she is going to put you in the friend category.
2. Tease her about being just a friend.
The look of shock on a guys face when I tell him to do this always amazes me. This works. When you tease her about being just a friend, more often than not, she will ask something like, “Oh, that’s all I am to you?” And from there you say something to the effect of “Why, are you trying to be more?” What this does is just basically reverse the situation and now she is trying to get out of the friend zone with YOU.
3. Get her in bed.
This is another shocker to most men, but a woman will date a guy that she sleeps with, and she will never date a guy that she will not sleep with. Hope that made sense. See, the common myth that men seem to have about women is that if you get her in bed, then she will not think of dating you, that it will just be casual sex. Let me tell you, I have never slept with a woman that I could not easily turn into a girlfriend if I wanted to. However, if you make her see you as a “non sexual” being, and she does not want to sleep with you, you can pretty much count out ever being her boyfriend.